
I hope you and your people have a wonderful Thanksgiving. Get ready! The weary world will rejoice. Christmas is coming!
Have an awesome day!
Wendy đ
As Americans prepare to celebrate Thanksgiving, we are living through historic levels of inflation and economic uncertainty. Last year, we were still living with the multi-year threat of a seemingly never-ending international pandemic. Some people were still afraid to travel. Social media was still overrun with arguments about wearing masks or not and I wonât even mention the ongoing political arguments.
Many families chose not to gather and break bread over fear or anger or both.
Fear and anger are great dividers.
We all hoped this year would be better. While the pandemic threat has subsided for most, flu is running rampant and now, so is inflation.
The country is just as divided on how to fix the economy as we were on how to handle the pandemic.
At street level, thereâs a lot to complain about and the situation looks rather hopeless, yet those of us who hold dual citizenship with heaven and earth are called to take a different view. We are called to remember that life on earth will always be a mix of calm and chaos and if we spend our days longing for better ones, then we will always miss the many blessings that are daily rained down upon us.
We are called to remember that we are travelers here and our King is not the least bit concerned about the economy or the flu.
With Thanksgiving less than a week away, people of faith, have the opportunity to show a dark world what Christian living is supposed to look like. We can live and act in such a way that draws others to Jesus. That includes our social media presence.
The Bible says, âIf it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.â Romans 12:18
We can choose to share our blessings with others both physically and virtually. We can choose to share Jesus.
We are called to love one another. âAbove all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.â 1 Peter 4:8
While fear and anger are great dividers, the fruit of the Holy Spirit fills us with powerful tools of reconciliation like peace, patience, joy, love kindness, goodness, gentleness and self-control.
Jesusâ last supper with His disciples reminds me of the importance of breaking bread together. Thanksgiving reminds me that despite what the world tells us, there is always much to be thankful for. Sometimes I need reminding. Perhaps you do too.
Have an awesome day!
Wendy đ
One of my favorite pastors always ends his sermons by saying, âGo be the church.â That doesnât seem like a particularly innovative or groundbreaking statement unless you really think about it.
As Americans, we tend to go to church. If I were to ask you about church, my question would likely be, âWhere do you go to church?â Church has become a place. Itâs a building with carpet, windows, electricity, and water. Itâs a place to congregate and worship.
When we think about being the church, what does that look like?
I have a co-worker who is a woman of deep faith and she and I bear witness to one another often about God working in our lives. This week, she sent me a sermon she wrote, years ago, when she was working in a prison ministry. She didnât go to seminary. As far as I know, she has no special Biblical training, but the Holy Spirit was clearly at work, because her message was absolutely awesome, timely and it touched my soul, not to mention she was sharing it with women who were in jail.
She clearly knows how to be the church.
I have a cousin, who is also a woman of devout faith, who has suffered deep tragedy and loss in her life. Yet, almost every day, she boldly posts on social media a beautiful picture of something growing in her garden along with an intricate story that anchors it to Jesus.
She knows what it means to be the church.
I have a friend who is a sheep farmer. I havenât seen her in couple of years now, but almost daily, she posts pictures from her farm on social media. Sometimes there are Bible verses. Sometimes there are short inspirational stories, but always they are a reflection of the God who she worships.
She also knows what it means to be the church.
On Election Day, I sent my mom a blog post I read about intentionally making a choice to add fuel to the dumpster fire of politics and social media or becoming a fire extinguisher. She shared the post to her Facebook page.
She knows what it means to be the church.
As we enter into a season of thanks alongside a season of runoffs, some Godly women in my life, have reminded me that as Christians, the call to be the church is every bit as important as the call to go to church. Sometimes I need reminding. Perhaps you do to.
Have an awesome day!
Wendy đ
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As I was walking through campus last week, I couldnât help but to admire the beautiful fall trees. There were tall tees and short trees, old ones and young ones, all participating in the stunning fall art show. The leaves ranged from tiny to huge and the colors were all over the spectrum. There were reds, yellows and oranges. Some of the trees were almost bare, having dropped their leaves early. Then, I passed by an oak, that was still mostly green and hadnât really started to drop its leaves at all.
I marveled a moment at the mighty oak. I doubted that it really mattered to it what the other trees were doing, and whether it was ahead or behind in the seasonal show. When the time comes, it too, will play its brilliant part.
I immediately thought about one of my students who I had spoken with earlier in the week. She told me that all of her roommates and everyone she knew, had it together, knew exactly what they wanted to do and were going to graduate early. She felt that she was behind. I gently pointed out to her that in real life, there is no behind; we are all figuring it out at our own pace and we will all get there.
I also reminded her that social media is just about all, make-believe. Everyoneâs life looks perfect on Instagram. She acknowledged the truth in that statement as we made a plan for her next semester.
I often wonder what it is about humanity that makes us determined to compare ourselves to each other. I donât think there is anything that can kill peace and joy more quickly than comparison, but we tend to be suckers for punishment.
One walk out in creation can remind us that God loves variety. He has His own timing and it is always good. The trees are all sizes and shapes, just like we are. They bloom at different times. Some trees are evergreen and donât drop their leaves at all and the ones that do, drop them at their own pace and it is good.
There would be nothing magical about the fall if the leaves all fell in the same week or if they were all the same color. The season is beautiful because every tree is different, just the way God intended.
The fall season reminds me to appreciate where I am in life and that comparison is really about questioning Godâs plans and His timing for us. The Bible tells us they are always good. Sometimes I need reminding. Perhaps you do too.
Have an awesome day!
Wendy đ
Last weekend, my hubby, my mama, and I decided to take a look at some old scuppernong vines that my grandmother planted over fifty years ago. They were a complete overgrown mess. They hadnât been touched or tended in at least twenty years. The original trellis was on the ground.
Trees had grown up around the trellis and the vines received very little sun. Briars had grown up into the vines along with both sweet gum and pine trees.
The entire situation looked irredeemable. Could there possibly be any life in the middle of that dead mess?
My Daddy, who was working on another project, looked over the fence at us and said, âLois planted those. They were the sweetest, golden berries you ever tasted.â
Could my grandmotherâs planting work still be viable after all these years of neglect?
We began to search for life among the rubble.
My hubby noticed right away that there were scuppernong vines climbing the surrounding trees. Vines have to come from a root. We started cutting and tossing.
To our happy surprise, when we cleared the debris from the top, we found many mother vines rooted deeply in the ground. When we snipped a little closer to the roots, we could see they were very much alive.
We marked them with pink flag tape and began cutting and tossing everything that hindered their growth. My hubby grabbed a chainsaw and took down some trees that were blocking the sun.
It was a lot of hard work as we searched, cut, raked, and hauled. We all had scratches from the briars, but in the end, we had the promise of a fruitful life restored.
The following day, Mama woke with the desire to check on the other vines my grandmother had planted. These were the bigger ones where we often found the most fruit when I was a kid. Again, we found the same situation. There were brambles, briars and trees, but when we cut and removed what wasnât supposed to be there, we found plenty of living, rooted vines. Delighted, we tagged them as well.
We will soon put in new trellises with strong cables to support those old, but living vines. We will install some type of watering system and we will wait and hope.
As children of God, we are all in the planting business. Sometimes we get to see what we plant on this side of Eternity and sometimes we donât. Sometimes what we plant lives long after we are gone, but, that is not for us to decide. All we can do, is plant as much as we can while we are here and trust God to do the rest.
Some old scuppernong vines reminded me. Perhaps you needed reminding too.
Have an awesome day!
Wendy
We had an early cold snap this past week. We went from temperatures in the 80âs over the weekend to below freezing temperatures in the span of just a few days. Thatâs really unusual for us in the Peach state. I have never been a fan of cold weather and if itâs below 70 degrees, Iâm cold.
Yesterday, I was sitting at my desk, slightly annoyed that I was having to wear a jacket because the thermostat in my office, refused to bend to my will, when the sun began streaming through my window onto my face.
I felt the warmth immediately and as I turned towards the warmth and light, I took the time to examine the leaves on the big Dogwood tree growing outside my window. The green was turning to red in a process that only God can orchestrate, and His artistry made me smile.
I immediately remembered enjoying its beautiful white blooms in the spring and being thankful for the beauty of that season.
As I admired the leaves, I was reminded that we worship a God of order, not chaos and that there is beauty in every season.
The Bible tells us, âWhile the earth remains, seedtime and harvest, cold and heat, summer and winter, day and night, shall not cease.â Genesis 8:22.
While we may have unexpected cold snaps and heat waves, the God of order created distinct seasons that we can count on and while we may prefer one season over another, there is beauty in all seasons. From the flowers in the spring, to the greenery and fruit in summer, to the leaves of fall and the snow of winter, if we look, we can always find beauty in creation.
Thereâs no way that this beauty is a coincidence. Walking with God has taught me that He is an intentional God not a God of happenstance or whims. When I embrace that notion, I am filled with gratitude.
When God created the earth, He knew full well that humanity would need to know when to plant and harvest even before Adam and Even decided to listen to the lies of Satan. Although man was cast out of the garden, God made a way for us to grow what we needed to eat and seasons to guide the way. In those seasons, He intentionally created points of beauty.
In some seasons the beauty is abundant and in others we have to intentionally seek it, but itâs always there, just as God is. A Dogwood tree reminded me. Perhaps you needed reminding too.
Have an awesome day!
Wendy đ
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As I was driving to work yesterday, I was giving thanks for the rain. We have desperately needed it and although it was no fun to drive in, I was determined to be thankful. As I drove, I prayed for inspiration for a blog post.
I know that God is always at work in my life and I often get glimpses of His handiwork, both in big and small ways. However, sometimes He moves in ways that are very personal either to me or my family and I donât feel free to share those stories with the world at large, so I prayed for what the Holy Spirit might want me to share.
I sat down at my desk at 7:30. At 7:46, I received a picture text from my Mama. It was the tiniest leaf on a stick, but this wasnât a random stick.
A few weeks earlier, we decided to try to root a pear tree that my grandmother planted over fifty years ago. Itâs still producing some fabulously sweet and juicy pears, but itâs very old and not very healthy. We donât know how much longer we will have that tree that has such a special place in the hearts our family.
I did some research on how to successfully graft a pear and itâs apparently one of the more difficult trees to graft. We needed warming mats and domes and all types of implements that we didnât have and we didnât really have the time to get. The days were getting shorter and if we were going to try it, we needed to get it done.
We took eight cuttings and put them in red solo cups. Our domes were Ziploc bags. My Daddy, our farmer in residence, who can grow just about anything, directed us to put them in windows all over the house and he and Mama were in charge of keeping an eye on them.
A few weeks passed and nothing happened. They spritzed them with water a couple of times. Last weekend, just a few days ago, there was still no sign of life, se we continued to wait.
Then, yesterday morning, I prayed for inspiration and less than half an hour later, my Mama texted a picture of proof of life. A leaf had appeared. The cutting was alive.
I sat in my office grinning as my eyes filled with tears, overwhelmed with gratitude. I offered up a prayer of thanks both for the signs of new life and for a God who answers prayers in the most unexpected ways.
Iâve learned on this journey, that when we walk with God, we should always expect the unexpected. Sometimes I need reminding. Perhaps you needed reminding too.
Have an awesome day!
Wendy đ
A couple of weeks ago, I was driving into work. I was traveling on a different path than was normal for me because I had to pick up coffee boxes for visiting employers who were interviewing our students. I was tired. It had been a long week, but it was all good things. My school had hosted a career fair the day before and the interviews were spillover.
I was happy that things were back to normal for our students after two years of slogging through Covid regulations. They were getting in person career fairs and interviews, but it had kept me planning and moving non-stop and I was exhausted.
The road I was traveling on was busy, even at 7:00 in the morning. It wasnât quite light outside and the cars out on the road raced from stop light to stop light, changing lanes to get around a bus or a slower vehicle.
I was thankful I didnât travel this road everyday. There was way too much traffic for me. It was like a Frogger game playing out in real time.
As we approached what felt like the 100th traffic light, there was only one car in front of me and I happily realized I was going to catch a green one.
Then I saw the girl on a scooter sailing across the crosswalk with her blond ponytail flying behind her obviously trying to beat the light and it immediately occurred to me that the car in front of me was not going to stop. She hit her and the girl flew off of her scooter onto the pavement.
I sat alone in my car, stunned and repeatedly uttered the only words that would come out, âMy God, My God,â as tears filled my eyes.
Miraculously, she jumped right back up. A pedestrian came out of nowhere to assist. The driver who hit her got out to check on her, but she waved both of them away and walked off with her scooter.
The driver who hit her returned to her car. The light turned green again and we all drove away.
I was shaken to the core for the rest of the day. The girl on the scooter was someoneâs beloved child and she had been spared. The woman who hit her had been spared of a lifetime of guilt if there had been a different outcome.
I had no words for the horror and despair I felt in that moment. I just called out to God and Iâve no doubt the Holy Spirit intervened.
Romans 8:26 tells us, âIn the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans.â
Never before had that verse held more meaning for me.
I felt a deep reminder of the graciousness of God deep within my soul. That day, I saw Him intervene and for that I am so very thankful, but He intervenes for us constantly in ways we never see and perhaps the unseen intervention deserves even more thanks.
Sometimes I need reminding. Perhaps you do too.
Have an awesome day!
Wendy đ
I’ve had a crazy week with very little white space. My son came home from college on Wednesday evening because his school went online in anticipation of Hurricane Ian and I wanted to spend some time with him. Although I don’t have a post today, my thoughts and prayers are with the people of Florida who are reeling from the aftermath and for the people in South Carolina who are now in its path. I pray for protection and intervention. I pray that God will make Himself known both through the miraculous and through the simple acts of kindness of His people. Won’t you join me?
Have an awesome day!
Wendy đ
I was taking a walk last week around the campus where I work. As we approach fall, there’s not a lot blooming. There’s a lot of green still and a few leaves are falling, but there’s not much color yet.
The entire world is embracing orange these days. Pumpkins and pumpkin spice are the flavors of the month. We long for the cooler temps and brightly colored leaves that usher in the fall season.
So when I happened upon a patch of brightly colored hot pink spider lilies I just had to smile and take a photo. The calendar may say it’s time for the autumnal equinox, but nature seems to have other plans.
I’ve always enjoyed those whimsical flowers. They look like something Dr. Seuss would have dreamed up. The fact that they appear in the fall, really makes me smile.
They remind me that it doesn’t matter how much we plan. We can want a new season to begin with every fiber of our being, but in the end, it’s all in God’s hands. Our desire for control can be so very costly, because in the end, we have very little of it. God apparently likes a shot of bright fuchsia in His fall palette of colors even if the retailers do not.
I’ve learned to expect the unexpected when walking with Jesus and I’m even learning to embrace it. So, I smile at those whimsical bright spider lilies and peacefully wonder, what other surprises might be in store in the coming season. There’s really no way for me to know, but He knows and that’s enough.
Have an awesome day!
Wendy đ