Getting off the Sidelines

One brick can't do much, but a bunch of them together, can build a fortress.
One brick can’t do much, but a bunch of them together, can build a fortress.

Seems like everywhere I look these days, there’s some new controversy about sports and prayer. In September of 2014, the ACLU told a Tennessee high school that they were no longer allowed to have a prayer over the PA system before the game. They were allowed a moment of silence.

The two cheer captains from each team, decided to stand up on their own, and lead their teammates in the Lord’s Prayer. When they were obedient to God’s call, the Holy Spirit stepped in. The entire crowd in the stands joined in. They were amazed. It was completely unexpected. But, that’s what happens when we step out in faith.

There wasn’t much the ACLU could do about it.

The latest prayer war is happening in the state of Washington. At Bremerton High School, a football coach named Joseph Kennedy, has been walking to the fifty yard line to kneel in prayer, after each game, since 2008, when he saw the film, “Facing the Giants.”

He always says some form of the following prayer: “Lord I thank you for these kids and the blessing you have given me with them. We believe in the game; we believe in competition and we can come into it as rivals and leave as brothers.”

It’s pretty shocking, I know. Apparently the big issue for the school district was that he used the word, “Lord,” in it.

Well, last Friday night was their homecoming game. The coach was told he could no longer pray in the locker room or on the field after the game, because he was still on the clock for the school. He was told by the school district if he prayed, he would lose his job. He agreed not to pray in the locker room because he did in fact, have a captive audience.

Did I mention that Coach Kennedy was a Marine for twenty years? He served in Dessert Shield and Dessert Storm. Kennedy said, “He spent twenty years defending the Constitution and the freedoms that everybody has.”

After the game was over, as usual, he went to the fifty yard line and took a knee and prayed. He always has players who voluntarily follow him, but last week, the team on the opposing side and their coaches joined him.

Not only that, the word had gotten out about his situation and fellow prayer warriors showed up. One man had never been to a Bremerton football game, but came because he was tired of, “ACLU bullies.” Another man hadn’t been to a high school game in forty years, but came to pray with the coach. A State Representative came and stood by the coach through the entire game.

Who knows how the story will end? Coach Kennedy has kept his eyes focused on the, “things of God, not the things of man.”

But one thing is for sure; this is how revival starts. Christians don’t have to ram our faith down anyone’s throat. We don’t need violence. We don’t need protest signs. We don’t need hate speech or to try to put someone out of business because they don’t believe like we do.

All we have to do is remember that the God we serve called the universe into being. He is all-powerful and in control. Then, we need to stand shoulder-to-shoulder with our fellow prayer warriors in Christ.

The Holy Spirit will do the rest. The only question for us, is are we willing to stand up or in this case, take a knee? Perhaps it’s time to get off of the sidelines and into the game.

Have an awesome day!

Wendy 🙂

Being Understandable

Perhaps communicating the Gospel clearly, should be a priority or all Christians.
Perhaps communicating the Gospel clearly, should be a priority for all Christians.

My pastor called my two teens into the parking lot on Sunday before church, for a little chat. I’ll have to admit that I was super curious what it was about. My kids adore him. They call him, “Captain,” which they got from the Robin Williams movie, “Dead Poet’s Society.”

I later learned that Captain asked them to take notes during his sermon and jot down anything that they didn’t understand, from vocabulary to concepts. During the sermon he said that John Wesley had done something similar, with a young servant girl. He asked her to raise her hand when he used words that she couldn’t understand. Turns out, her hand was in the air almost constantly.

I find being understandable a fascinating concept because last week, I wrote a post about experiencing God and I had someone comment that, “I had written in a way that all could understand.”

I was floored by the comment simply because I never really thought about it before. Shouldn’t we all communicate in ways that everyone can understand, especially if we are sharing ideas and truths about God? Shouldn’t being understandable always be our goal?

Is, “The Church,” failing in communicating plainly with the world around us? When I say, “The Church,” I mean all of us who follow Jesus. “The Church,” is people not a place or a denomination. We are the Body of Christ. That’s a really big role to play. We should probably take it seriously.

What are we communicating to non-believers? Are we unclear? Are we teaching and preaching one thing at worship service and then acting entirely differently when we exit the building?

Do we preach grace and forgiveness to those who visit, but then change our message entirely after they join? Does church membership become about rules and appearances? Do we preach the importance of loving others, but then do nothing for those who are in need?

There are some highly educated people out there who seem to enjoy using big words whether spoken or written. I personally find essays or books that are written with words that cause me to find a thesaurus, to be tiring. I’m likely to put a piece of writing like that, down. It doesn’t matter how profound the message may have been, if it gets lost in five dollar words and abstract concepts.

The world at large needs to know about Jesus. Christians are called to share the Gospel with the people around us. Perhaps we should take a little time to be sure that we communicate clearly with our words, as well as with our actions, who it is we serve and why.

Perhaps we should follow the lead of Captain and make every effort to be understandable to everyone who God sends across our path. Sometimes I need reminding. Maybe you do too.

Have an awesome day!

Wendy 🙂

Are We Part-Time Christians?

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Photo courtesy of Red & Black- Mark Richt prays with Nick Chubb.

My Facebook page has been extremely populated with anti-Mark Richt comments the past couple of weeks. The Bulldogs lost to Alabama and then to Tennessee, and a vocal contingent of the Bulldog Nation has been calling for his resignation. It doesn’t matter to them what his record is. All that matters is that they want to beat Alabama and win a national championship.

Who doesn’t? I think that the majority of college football fans are tired of mouthy Alabama fans, and is there a fan out there who doesn’t want their team to win a national championship? That’s a fabulous goal. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to win, unless perhaps it defines you.

When we decide to win at all costs, sacrificing integrity, decency and everything else in the way, winning becomes an idol.

Mark Richt is in his fifteenth year of coaching at UGA. His players have an 82% graduation rate, tying with Vanderbilt for number one in the SEC. In a 2014 ESPN article, of the top twenty-five programs in the country, according to the AP and USA Today Coaches Poll, UGA ranked third in the country, in players who graduate, right behind Notre Dame and Stanford. Since less that 4% of players go on to play in the NFL, that’s a big deal.

When the disastrous Tennessee game played out a couple of weeks ago and Nick Chubb was injured, Richt was caught on camera, praying with him. He felt like prayer was that important.

During Saturday night’s game against Missouri, I saw Todd Gurley sitting on the sidelines with Chubb, throughout the game. Gurley is now an NFL star. He certainly had better things he could have done on his week off, yet there he was supporting his injured former teammate. The week before he had tweeted prayers for him.

Praying for each other and supporting one another, isn’t that what those of us who claim to be Christians are called to do? Is there any way we can avoid giving Richt some credit in that friendship?

Richt has been quoted as saying, “My identity is not in being a national championship foot ball coach. My identity is in Christ. Do I want to win one? Yes. Does that define me as a person? No.”

He has also said that he has been asked by moms to help make their son into a man. That’s the sad reality that we live in these days. Richt has tried to rise to the challenge.

So, with all of these thoughts and facts that have swirled in my mind, I have to ask the questions, “As Southerners, who consider ourselves God-fearing Christians, men and women of faith, are we part-time Christians? Are we only Christ-followers on Sundays? Do we put away our faith for Saturday football?”

As Christians, it seems to me that what happens to those young athletes in the years after college should matter to us. Do they deserve to have a productive life after college? Do we pray that they come to know Jesus as their savior? Do we pray that they be able to have a positive impact in their world, (our world), after college?

Are their lives worth more than a national championship? Mark Richt seems to have his eyes focused on the things of God, not the things of man. Can the Bulldog Nation honestly say the same?

Have an awesome day!

Wendy 🙂

 

Boundless Borderless God

The God who created the universe is not bound by human understanding.
The God who created the universe, is not bound by human understanding.

I was recently having a conversation with a friend of mine about a book study she is doing at her church. It’s supposed to be about, “Experiencing God.” She was super excited about the class because she’s fairly new to the faith and she’s found that a lot of the, “studies” that she has participated in are fluff.

She was hoping to get down to some serious discussion about actually experiencing God, which involves way more than getting dressed up and attending church for a couple of hours on Sunday. She was quite disheartened to find that her new study began with a video that basically listed all of the ways that you can’t experience God.

Now I’m sure that the guy who wrote the book and created the video are way more educated than I am. Perhaps that’s the problem.

I’m really not sure how anyone can tell you how you can and can’t experience God. When I pointed out to her that God made a donkey talk, and showed up in a bush, and sent ravens to feed Elijah and that I felt like He could communicate with us in any way He sees fit, she said that the group’s answer to that was, that was in the Old Testament.

Um, hold the phone. If we believe that God never changes and that He’s all powerful, do we honestly believe that He is bound by any constructs that humanity can come up with? My friend said her group said, since we now have the Holy Spirit, that God no longer communicates in the same way as He did in the Old Testament.

But, didn’t the Holy Spirit come to help us and counsel us? He didn’t come to bind God in any way.

I told her that I felt like that one of the most dangerous pitfalls of modern day Christianity is that we have become like the Pharisees. We know all of the rules and can recite many of the verses, but we miss the majesty of God, the mystery of God.

We can’t explain it; so we don’t talk about it. There was a book that came out several years ago called, “Heaven is for Real.” Do we discount that boy’s story because we don’t understand it? What about all of those people with near death experiences who see a light? We can’t explain that either. Are all of those people making it up?

God is boundless and borderless. We couldn’t possibly fathom all that He is capable of with our small human minds. We can and should read the Bible to learn about His character and how He has acted in the past. We have to know that He would never instruct us to do something that is contrary to scripture. We also have to keep in mind that we have an enemy who would.

But, other than that, the Creator of the earth and sky, the One who calls the stars by name, the One who created me and you and numbers the hair on our heads, well His powers are limitless. I think we should always remember that.

Have an awesome day!

Wendy 🙂

Appreciating the Valleys

We get to see all of the beautiful details at the bottom and on the journey.
We get to see all of the beautiful details in the valleys and on the journey.

“Humility is the mother of giants. One sees great things from the valley; only small things from the peak.” GK Chesterton

I read this quote for the first time the other day and I was so struck by its truth, that I wrote it down. Humility is not something that we value in our culture. We like the biggest, and the fastest, and the best. We worship the winners. We strive to be on top at all times.

We want to be first in the race, the boss, the president of the organization. Don’t get me wrong; those are all fine aspirations. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with attaining something that we’ve worked really hard to get.

The journey to get where we want to go, often begins at the bottom and is filled with humility. When we first start to run, we often finish close to last. It’s humbling. When we lose more games than we win, it’s humbling. When we first begin to apply for jobs and don’t get chosen, the rejection is humbling.

When we find ourselves in the valley, we often find ourselves drawing very close to God. When we have very little, every little gift means a lot. When we are humbled by our lack, or by our failures, or simply by the unknown future, we know in our hearts that we need God. Prayer sometimes becomes our constant companion.

Then prayers get answered and our situations change and we are so thankful and grateful for a time. We notice all of the scenery on our way to the top. No detail escapes us.

We’re gearing up for another election cycle soon. Think about how humble candidates are during a campaign. Think about how grateful they are. Think about how their attitudes seem to change after the election. The humility often evaporates.

I’ve witnessed the same phenomenon happen when someone gets a big job promotion as well. Humility gets lost. Pride steps in and when pride steps in, it gets bigger and bigger and the need or rather the acknowledged need, for God gets smaller and smaller.

Pride brought down a certain angel named Lucifer.

It seems when we reach the top of whatever it is we so desperately strive for, we tend to let everything else get small except for our achievement.

Of course we have a choice. We always have a choice. We can choose to keep God close no matter where we are in our journey. We can choose to be thankful in the valleys and the peaks. We can pray for humility once we reach the top. We can choose to know that we need God wherever we are, and that can make all of the difference.

But, if you find yourself in a valley today, take heart, the beauty is in all of the details of the journey and the perseverance comes from the One who always walks with you. You never travel alone.

Have an awesome day!

Wendy 🙂

 

Surviving the Switchbacks

Don't get discouraged. The view from the top is stunning.
Don’t get discouraged. The view from the top is stunning.

I love to hike and this is my favorite time of year for it. There air is cooler and the leaves are turning. One thing I’ve learned over the years is that some of the most beautiful views require a fair amount of effort to enjoy. Some of the most beautiful scenery God ever created is on the top of a mountain or looking over the top of a waterfall.

But, there’s a catch. To really appreciate all of the glory that nature has to offer, you have to start at the bottom and hike to the top. Sometimes the trail is a gentle walk with very few obstacles. Sometimes you can reach the top in no time.

Sometimes, however, the trail is covered with exposed roots and you have to watch your footing or you will fall. Then there are the trails with the dreaded switchbacks. There are some trails that are way too steep to go straight up, so someone along the way, created a more even system to reach the top. Unfortunately, they are quite tedious.

You walk awhile going in one direction then you get to the end and you are pointed back in the direction you just came from, but a little bit closer to the top than before. I have walked a series of switchbacks before where I felt like I had very close kinship with those hamsters in their little mazes. I wondered if I would ever each the top.

But, I had to keep walking. At some point, I realized I had come way too far to turn back. I was ever so sure that the summit was just around the corner and I resolved to keep going. I did stop for a water break at times. Sometimes you just have to rest and catch your breath.

But, when I reached the top, well, the sheer beauty made me feel closer to God. But, isn’t that always the case when we travel towards some kind of destination that seems out of our reach?

We begin with some kind of game plan or map and we get started. Sometimes we get to where we are going quickly. But, sometimes the road is long and the path is twisted. Sometimes we only take what feels like the tiniest of baby steps and we truly believe we are getting nowhere.

But, if we are following God, we may just be in a series of switchbacks, which means we are getting there, but at a slower, safer pace. Sometimes we need to take a break on our journey and take a little rest. We can pray for continued strength and guidance.

Wherever you are today in your journey, rest if you need to, but then, get up and keep going, even if you feel very weary or even discouraged, because in the end, if you are following Him, you will reach the top and the view is stunning.

 

Have an awesome day!

Wendy 🙂

Removing the Obstacles

Sometimes we need to consider what keeps us from following Jesus. What separates us from God?
Sometimes we need to consider what keeps us from following Jesus. What separates us from God?

Our sermon on Sunday was about the, “Rich Young Ruler.” The story is found in all three Synoptic Gospels, but Sunday’s focus was in Mark, Chapter 10. It’s a story that makes many of us squirm. There are those that skip the story altogether, thinking that if this is what it means to follow Jesus, then they aren’t interested.

A young fellow walks up to Jesus and asks Him what to do to have eternal life. Jesus tells him to follow the commandments. The young man assures Jesus that he’s done that since he was a kid. I picture him feeling pretty squared away at this point.

I think he represents a perfect example of how many of us who have grown up in church and spent all of our lives there feel. We know the rules. We obey the rules. Check and check! Whew! That’s all we have to do. Right?

Verse 21, really grabs me when it says, “Jesus looked at him and loved him.”

Do you sense a, “but,” coming up? Now notice, Jesus doesn’t tell him not to follow the rules or keep the commandments. He told him those were important in the earlier verses. However, the “but,” that has many Westerners screaming for the hills, is the second half of the verse, “One thing you lack, he said. Go sell everything you have and give it to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come follow me.”

Did Jesus just say to go to Heaven that we have to sell everything we have and give it to the poor?

Nope, He said that young man needed to. Why would He say that?

The next verse tells us that his face fell and he went away sad because he had great wealth. Ahhh, there’s the heart of it. To get to Heaven, the man needed to follow Jesus. What would keep this particular man from following Jesus? Jesus knew what it was. It was his wealth.

His wealth was his idol. It came first. It came between him and Jesus, so it came between him and Heaven. Jesus knew this and He shared it. But, the young man wasn’t willing to hear it and walked away.

But, the wealth was just an example of many barriers that keep us from following Jesus. It’s a common one, so much so that the camel and they eye of the needle verse follows. Jesus knew that people who had all of their worldly needs provided for often didn’t feel a need for God.

But, we have plenty of other idols. Don’t we? They can range from watching sports, to playing golf, to time on our boat at the lake, to being in a relationship with someone who doesn’t believe. When those things become more important than Jesus, we are called to let them go.

We can’t worship Jesus and put other things on the same level with Him. It doesn’t work. To truly follow Him and become more like Him, we are called to put other things that interfere, aside.

But, the good news is, Jesus promises that it will all be worth it in the end. What keeps you from following Jesus?

Have an awesome day!

Wendy 🙂

Prayers for Chubb

Heartfelt prayers are always heard.
Heartfelt prayers are always heard.

On the very first play of the Georgia versus Tennessee football game, Georgia’s star running back, Nick Chubb, suffered a serious injury to his left leg. When I say serious, I mean I saw the up close replay several times, thanks to CBS, and I was just sick for him. I mean, I seriously thought his bone would come through the skin. It was horrible to watch.

He was obviously in excruciating pain, which CBS was all too happy to capture from every angle, but the network also captured something else. Almost every time the camera zoomed back in on the injured player, there was someone else from the team, praying with him. There were coaches, trainers as well as his teammates, bowing their heads to pray for him.

It was truly inspirational to see. This is SEC college football. It’s a rough sport. These kids playing are giants with big NFL plans in many of their futures and they had a full four quarters to play, yet they took the time to pray with their teammate.

The trainers and medical staff could have focused solely on his physical injuries. They were certainly severe. But, they too, seemed to have understood at the moment, that the spiritual was just as important.

Of equal interest were the prayers that appeared on Twitter. Almost as soon as Chubb went down, the Twitterverse got busy with prayers. Todd Gurley, a former UGA player and current NFL player, who tore his ACL in college, tweeted that he was praying for Chubb and his tweet was retweeted 7,957 times.

I find it interesting that parents have lamented for years about the poor role models that sports figures play for kids. I haven’t seen too much attention given to NFL players praying, unless it was to ridicule Tim Tebow as much as possible, for his strong faith.

There were Tweeted prayers from Aaron Murray, Marcus Lattimore, Tim Tebow, and Carl Lawson to name a few. A couple of those guys had knee injuries in college too and went on to do great things. Each young man allowed God to use him to publicly reach out to a fellow athlete, a fellow Christian.

Early Sunday evening, Chubb’s mother posted a heartfelt prayer and thanks of her own. “I thank God for being an awesome God and what an awesome God he is;” she began. She went on to say he had torn three ligaments, (not the dreaded ACL,), and would have surgery in a couple of weeks. She thanked everyone for their prayers. Then she said, “I do not doubt God or his plans…. We are going to increase our time with God and continue watching him work. Stay tuned….”

I guess we now know why Nick Chubb is said by all who meet him, to be a remarkable young man. His mama has clearly taught him to love the Lord.

You can Google the video and watch the injury play. While he is out for the season, he will be up and running again sooner than later. It could have been so much worse. Do prayers work? I suspect Chubb and his mama both, would say a resounding, “yes.” I’m sure they would also appreciate it if we would continue to pray for Nick.

Have an awesome day!

Wendy 🙂

Back in His Arms

Jesus always welcomes us back with open arms.
Jesus always welcomes us back with open arms.

Yesterday, when I mistimed going to run a few errands, I ended up behind a school bus. There are few things that I dislike more than riding for a mile, or less, then stopping, for what seems like forever. I know I’m not alone here. But, alas, that was my lot yesterday.

As I was sending a mental telepathy message to the driver to, “Please turn! Please turn,” he stopped again. Sigh. I drummed my fingers on the steering wheel, as I waited.

Then I watched a little girl get off the bus. She was tiny and couldn’t have been older than kindergarten or first grade. She had a light blue, “Frozen,” backpack on her back that was as almost as big as she was. I found myself smiling at how cute she was and remembered my own daughter carrying a pink, Barbie backpack when she was that age. I remember hers being too big for her too. Where had the time gone?

As the bus waited, I watched the little girl break out into a run right into the arms of her mother. It was so ordinary, but so sweet. She probably saw her mom just that morning, but missed her so much that just walking wasn’t fast enough.

Again, I remembered my own children being that excited to see me at the end of a long day. I also remember that I took as much comfort from them being safely back in my arms as they did.

I think Jesus probably feels the same way when we’ve wandered away, whether it’s a long work day without contact or many years. I think he stands like that mama in the driveway, with his arms outstretched, beckoning us back. It doesn’t really matter where we have been. He just wants us back, safely in his arms, and if we’re wise, we will run, just like that little girl did, because we really can’t get back in his arms fast enough.

I carried that thought around for the rest of the day and I thanked God for the sweet reminder. Maybe you needed one too.

Have an awesome day!

Wendy 🙂

 

Ordinary Blessings

Ever notice how brilliant the light is after you have weathered a storm?
Ever notice how brilliant the light is after you have weathered a storm?

Yesterday was the first time this school year that I have been in a school car rider line. My daughter started driving this year, so I have been relieved of my afternoon driving duties. But, yesterday she had something to do after school, so I had to go pick up my son.

It was a gorgeous fall day. It has rained here for the past couple of weeks. The day before was pretty too, but I worked that day, so I was indoors. Yesterday, I found myself cleaning house all day, so I was again indoors all day, until pick up time.

I’ll have to admit that I found myself slightly annoyed at having to go back to the car rider line. I spent an hour a day for eleven years, waiting for my kids to get out of school. Not being in that line has added a couple of hours to my day to get things done before my teens get home from school.

But, when I got in the car, the brilliant blue cloudless sky, was almost breathtaking. I don’t take time to notice the sky when it’s sunny everyday. But, after two weeks of rain? I found it stunning. I found myself giving a prayer of thanks for that beautiful sky.

I was reminded that our lives are full of everyday blessings like that sky, that we often take for granted until something unfortunate happens. We are blessed with health, and family, and friends, and plenty to eat, and pets that make us smile, houses to live in, people who love us and, well, if you took the time to make a list, you would probably run out of paper.

Sadly, we sometimes forget all of those ordinary blessings are in fact, blessings. We take them for granted. We focus on what we don’t have or what we want and not all of the bounty that we have, until the storms hit.

When the rains come and we scramble for peace and refuge, we remember. We remember what is really important and what truthfully, doesn’t matter at all. We gain new perspective for all we have.

And when the rains pass, and they always will, eventually, if we are wise, we give thanks to the One who not only helped us weather the storm, but has given us so much to be thankful for.

Yesterday, I found myself incredibly thankful for the sky and that I had a healthy child to pick up from school. I’ll bet you can think of at least couple of things you are thankful for too.

Have an awesome day!

Wendy 🙂