Category: Trusting God

Sometimes life seems upside-down. When we draw closer to God, we begin to learn and trust that He has a plan for us and we can let go of many of life’s anxieties knowing that He has our best interest at heart.

The Fog

Posted on by Wendy
Sometimes some fog can produce beautiful results.
Sometimes some fog can produce beautiful results.

It was foggy when I was driving my kids to school this morning. The sun was up and burning through it and it was quite beautiful. I live in a rural area, so there were pastures and ponds covered in it. I could make out shapes, but I couldn’t see clearly. I remember, when I was growing up that my mother always gave us a “fog warning” on days we were expecting fog. “We have to leave early this morning; it’s foggy out.” As a child, I never understood that. Why were we supposed to dislike fog?

As an adult, I get it. Mornings are always crazy and as a mother of two, I know that they will push the time to leave the house for school til the last second. It’s rush, rush, rush! We are in a hurry and the fog slows us down. We don’t like to slow down. We like to go, go, go! We like to know what lies ahead of us on the road. The fog obscures our view.

Sometimes, our lives get covered in fog. We are in a season where we just can’t see what is in front of us. We can’t see what lies around the next curve. It frightens and frustrates us and we don’t like it. I have come to understand, that there are times when God wants us to focus on Him, not on the road, but on Him. Sometimes, He has to slow us down to a crawl to get us to focus on what is important or to hear what He is trying to communicate to us. These are the times when I really have to take it one day at a time, which is very difficult for me because I like to plan everything months in advance. I also prefer megaphone moments, but God’s way is often a whisper. Sometimes the fog is a short season and sometimes it seems to linger for years. I think the key is to learn to embrace the fog.

The fog is God’s way of growing our faith. We don’t have to know what’s coming next because our Heavenly Father does. We don’t have to fear because He has our back. And when we get really brave, we give Jesus the wheel. That’s when we really have to fasten our seat belts  because wherever He takes us, it will be a wild ride, but one so worth taking. Have you had any fog in your life recently? Please feel free to share.

Have an awesome day!

Wendy 🙂

 

Enough

Posted on by Wendy
Birds always seem to have enough.
Birds always seem to have enough.

When do we have enough? I was sitting at the kitchen table on a Saturday morning while my husband was paying the bills. He was commenting about having enough left over to live on. I found myself praying once again, about money. We always have enough, but rarely any extra. For some reason, the story of manna and the Israelites kept popping into my head. I decided to go and look it up.

I hadn’t read the story in a long time and I found the details fascinating.  In Exodus 16, God tells Moses that he is going to rain down food from heaven. The people are to gather up as much food as they need for the day. He tells Moses that he will test the people on this. Of course, being humans and doing what humans do, there are some who break the rules and gather more than they need. In the morning, it has a terrible stench and is filled with maggots. Yuck! Verse 18 tells us that everyone had just enough, no leftovers.

This idea of enough really got me to thinking. When do we have enough? If I have plenty to eat at every meal, is that enough? If I have clothes and shoes to wear each day, is that enough? I really struggle with that one. I always long for a new wardrobe when the seasons change, but as I am doing my family’s laundry, I can never find enough hangers for the clothes I have. Surely, I have enough. What about cars and electronic gadgets? If I have a reliable vehicle to pick my kids up from school with, does it need to be new and shiny? What about my cell phone? Does is really need to be “smart” or will something to make and take calls suffice?

I could go on indefinitely about the many material blessings I have been given. Still, I often find myself longing for more. Maybe it’s my nature or maybe it’s because our fallen world teaches us we never have enough. Maybe it’s a little of both. Either way, I always find instruction when I go back to the Bible. God’s command to the Israelites, was to take as much as they needed, not as much as they wanted. Uhoh! I think I have some work to do.

My granddaddy always said,  “You are old enough, where your wants won’t hurt you.” I never liked that phrase, however, I think he was onto something. He was paraphrasing God’s command to the Israelites. I think I really need to work on my wants versus my needs. How about you? How do you do with wants and needs? How much is enough? Feel free to share.

Have an awesome day!

Wendy 🙂

God Loves Average

Posted on by Wendy
God takes average and makes it fabulous!
God takes average and makes it fabulous!

I live in a town where the norm is above average. Everyone likes to talk about how their kids are gifted and everyone is into sports. Many of the parents here truly believe their son or daughter is going to get a college scholarship for baseball, soccer, football, name the sport. We are in a super competitive environment. Don’t get me wrong; it’s a great place to raise kids. It’s safe; the people are friendly and the vast majority attend church. However, if you have children who don’t like to compete or if  you as parents, don’t like to compete, then you could find yourself labeled, the dreaded “Average.”

No one wants to be average. Everyone wants to be above average. Right? Average is uninteresting and downright boring. As we begin another school year, I was contemplating the concept of average.  I looked it up in a dictionary and found: ordinary, usual, typical. That’s not that bad, except when you are a teenager and you want so badly to get noticed or when you are a middle schooler and you want so desperately to get put in art class, but you get put in P.E. with all of the super jocks again. Maybe you begin to think that God just loves athletes and beautiful people more than everyone else.

Unless, you pick up a Bible, when I read the Bible, I find that God loves average. If David had been a, 7 feet tall warrior, it wouldn’t have been a miracle that he took Goliath down (with a simple slingshot). If Moses wasn’t  a stutterer, it wouldn’t have been quite as miraculous that he was the one God sent to tell Pharaoh to let his people go. If  Mary would have been a pampered princess, the prophecy of Jesus’ birth would have never been fulfilled. The Bible is full of these examples, average, ordinary people called to glorify God in some way.

God loves average, ordinary people because they give Him the greatest opportunity to shine. They also tend to be more humble than the mighty. When God calls us to do something, it doesn’t matter who we are or what we think we are capable of.  After all, the Angel Gabriel told Mary, “For nothing is impossible with God.” I think we should believe that truth and start living it.

Average is simply a title we give each other. God can take average and make it fabulous! Let’s encourage each other and especially our kids to remember that we are all special and unique to our Creator. Thankfully, He has the final word. What do you think about average?

Have an awesome day!

Wendy 🙂