Magnolia Reminders

“And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin.  Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these.” Matthew 6:28-29

 

I have had the joy of working with some elementary student field trips at our local arboretum over the past couple of weeks. I love how children remind us to be in awe of the parts of life that have become mundane to us.

Children tend to be naturally curious and so they ask lots of questions, especially in new environments. I was standing with a class while they were waiting in line to use the restroom, when a little boy picked up a small red seed to ask me what it was. I explained to him that it was a magnolia seed an that the huge tree he was standing under, came from a small seed just like the one he was holding in his hand. He seemed very surprised.

When I found a picture of a magnolia flower on my phone to show him, he was even more surprised. I went on to explain to him that not only are magnolias beautiful, they also smell great.

I’ll have to admit, after reflecting on our conversation later that day, that I too, found myself in awe of how a giant magnolia tree with huge perfumed blossoms can come from one tiny red seed. The finished product looks nothing like its humble beginnings. Furthermore, after doing a little research, I learned that the hard wax coating on the red seed is broken down after it is eaten by an animal and after that process, the seed can grow into a mighty tree.

That’s a lot of moving parts, to create a tree. Yet, we have magnolia trees all over the South. As I looked at a magnolia tree in my own yard, I felt a reminder deep in my soul that if God goes to that much effort and detail for a tree, He certainly puts a lot more planning and effort in humanity

Psalm 139: 13-14 says, “For you created my inmost being;  you knit me together in my mother’s womb.  I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;  your works are wonderful,  I know that full well.”

Sometimes I think it’s easy to forget how precious we are to God, but thankfully we have scripture to remind us. Children can also serve as good reminders. Sometimes I need reminding. Perhaps you do too.

Have an awesome day!

Wendy 🙂

A Call to Share Light

“The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.” John 1:5

 

I was getting a haircut last week when a man came into the salon and sat in the chair next to me. He was clearly distraught as he spoke of the shooting that happened live on social media for everyone to see. If I’m honest, I will admit that I had no idea who he was talking about. With the sudden loss of my husband last October, I’ve walked through my own dark grief journey the past year. In an effort to heal, I have eliminated most news and kept my social media interaction to a minimum. I am an empath by nature and I simply no longer had the head or heart space for all the negativity.

My first thought was prayers for his widow and children. It didn’t matter who he was. He left behind a wife and children who would miss him for the rest of their days on this side of eternity.

As the man continued to talk, he made the comment that he wasn’t sure how he could raise his son in a world that had come to this kind of violence.

I sat with his words as the next day led to the 24th year since the 9/11 attacks. I remembered as if it were yesterday, rocking my infant son in the middle of the night and wondering what kind of world he would grow up in. Was this the end of life as we knew it? How would I raise him in a world with that kind of violence.

I remember praying in fear and lament and I remember picking up my Bible.

What I have learned over the past twenty-four years, coupled with what I have learned over the past year, is while there is always space for grief and lament on this side of eternity,  as Christians, I believe we have to ask ourselves, do we believe God is in control or not? Do we believe He has a plan or not?

If we are able to answer yes to both of those questions, then we also know that we were made for such a time as this. When God knitted each of us together in our mother’s womb, He knew we would be here at this moment. He knew this about the children He would bless us with as well.

We each have a God appointed mission to share truth and light with the people who cross our paths. Darkness can never be countered with more darkness. The only remedy for darkness is light. Even the tiniest flicker can make a difference. Sometimes I need reminding. Perhaps you do too.

Have an awesome day!

Wendy 🙂